When you are confronted with death your perspective changes, your life changes.
What’s important is telling people that you love them and care about them. Don’t waste time in life on small things that worry you. I have experienced loss and grief, pain and sadness. But nothing I’ve felt amounts to the death of someone close to you, particularly in light of recent events.
Not to undermine pain or problems of everyday life, but remember that life is short. Tell your mum you love her. Tell your sister you’re proud of her. Hug and kiss your brother and buy your friend flowers because you can. Be generous and kind. Don’t hold grudges. Forgive people and be the best person you can be.
Yesterday was my birthday and my Melbourne friends made me a cake.
I think relationships in general are over romanticized like at the end of the day I’m pretty sure a good relationship is just two people who are attracted to each other and know how to hang out and talk to each other not whether or not they can right all your wrongs or paint a picture of a thousand suns with the breath from your lungs or some shit